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Tinashe D. Ndhlovu's avatar

A great essay that challenges the idea of 'having it all,' showing how true fulfillment comes from gratitude. Instead of chasing societal expectations, it’s about appreciating what we have and finding meaning in life’s unexpected twists. It reminds us to focus on the metrics we choose for ourselves, thanks Bansi.

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Bansi Pattni's avatar

Thank you Tinashe I am glad you enjoyed it 😊

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Patrick Muindi's avatar

Generally, the nature of ambition is to always be looking forward to the next thing. So, yes, we must be conscious enough to look behind, sideways, and ahead. It's hard to have everything; it's usually just tradeoffs. However, it can be an equilibrium we find contentment in.

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Bansi Pattni's avatar

Yep spot on! Thank you for this lovely augmentation Patrick 😊

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Harun Kewa's avatar

Wonderful piece, Bansi.

It’s important to realise as we go through life that nothing is permanent, including our perspective on things. We need to allow room for different perspectives to come into our lives or we could find ourselves stuck on a path that no longer suits us.

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Bansi Pattni's avatar

Thank you Harun, I am glad you enjoyed it. 😊

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